How to Know If You Are Ready for a Pet – 10 Questions to Ask Yourself

3/16/2026By Ivan Nikolic
The decision to get a pet is one of the most important life decisions you can make and simultaneously one of the most frequently made impulsively. A cute puppy photo online, a child asking for months, an impulse in a pet store — these are all common triggers that lead to decisions without enough reflection. The result is millions of abandoned animals every year. These 10 questions will help you understand whether you are truly ready. 1. Do You Have Enough Time This is the most underestimated question. A dog requires a minimum of one to two hours of physical activity daily plus feeding, play, and attention. A cat is more independent but still needs daily interaction and care. A parrot can require even more attention than a dog. Before making a decision honestly assess how much free time you actually have every day — not in ideal conditions but on an average working day. 2. Can You Afford a Pet Pets cost significantly more than most people plan for. Annual costs for a dog vary widely but typically include food, veterinary care, vaccinations, parasite prevention, and equipment. On top of that you need to account for unexpected veterinary costs which can amount to several thousand euros in the case of a serious illness or injury. Always build a financial buffer before bringing a pet home. 3. Where Do You Live A large dog in a small apartment without a garden is not just an inconvenience for you — it is permanent stress for the animal. Assess whether your living space suits the pet you are interested in. Some breeds are excellent for apartments such as the French Bulldog and British Shorthair cat while others like the Border Collie or Husky are built for space and activity. 4. Are You Allergic Allergies to animal hair and dander are extremely common and are often discovered only after the animal already lives with you. Before getting a pet consult an allergist particularly if you have children or household members with a history of respiratory allergies. 5. What Will You Do with the Pet When You Travel Many people forget this question until holiday time arrives. A dog cannot be left alone for more than 8 hours. Who will look after your pet while you are away? Do you have a reliable person or are you prepared to pay for a pet boarding service? 6. Does Everyone in the Household Want a Pet A pet is not a gift that can be given to one family member — it affects everyone. If your partner is not enthusiastic about the idea or the child who asked for a dog quickly loses interest — who takes responsibility? Every adult member of the household must be aware of and agree to the responsibilities a pet brings. 7. Do You Have a Plan for Long-Term Care A dog can live 15 years, a cat 20. What happens to the pet if your life situation changes — relocation, divorce, a new job, a baby, illness? A responsible owner must have a plan even for such scenarios. 8. Do You Have Children or Are You Planning a Family If you are planning to start a family in the next year or two think about how the pet will react to a newborn. Some animals adapt beautifully while others can show jealousy or stress. It is not impossible but it requires preparation and attention. 9. Which Type of Pet Actually Suits Your Personality Few people ask themselves this question but it may be the most important one. An active person who loves nature and sport — a dog is perfect. An introverted person who values calm and order — a cat is a better choice. A person who travels frequently — perhaps an aquarium or a more independent exotic animal. 10. Have You Considered Adoption Before buying a puppy from a breeder consider adopting an adult animal from a shelter. Shelters are full of healthy socialized animals waiting for a home. Adoption is a more affordable and ethical choice and equally rewarding. On PetFriendsForever you can browse animals available for adoption from shelters in your region. If you have answered all questions honestly and feel confident in every answer — welcome to the world of pet ownership! If there is something you are unsure about — take more time. The pet will still be there in a month. 🐾